Wednesday, December 29, 2010

A whole New Year

It's almost that time again, when my human friends stay up waaaay past bedtime to watch that giant lighted ball fall down over Times Square. Why they do that, I have no idea, especially because they only drop it once and no one ever gets to chase it. Doesn't seem like much of a game to me.

Shortly after the ball drop, the humans start talking about "resolutions." If you ask me, the only resolution worth making is "I resolve to give Bea more Snausages," but to date no one has made that one.

Resolutions are one of those human things we dogs just don't get. Humans say things like, "I resolve to spend more time with my family." Then something will happen like you get the flu, or there's a birthday you have to prepare for, or you have to a deadline at work, and boom! All of a sudden you feel guilty about breaking your resolution, and we dogs have to spend the rest of the winter cheering you up about it (in between dropping the kids off at school, choir practice, grocery shopping, getting the car in for an oil change, potluck suppers, midnight trips to the pharmacy… etc., etc., etc.)

Now, a dog resolution would be much more short-term: "I resolve to eat my whole bowl of food in less than 45 seconds!" or "I resolve to pull down that adorable holiday bear in the foyer and chew it to pieces as soon as you can't see!"

Dogs are not much for delayed gratification.

So maybe that's something you can learn from dogs this year: Enjoy the moment. Take time to make yourself happy. Go ahead, it's just as important as all that other stuff. Watch the birds in the snow. Get a cup of hot chocolate -- the really good kind you don't usually splurge on. Look for pictures in the clouds while you're waiting to pick up the kids. Share a meal with each other, not the TV -- even if it's take-out. Give the dog a tummy rub and an extra treat. (That last one is probably the most important.)

Believe me, no one ever says, "I wish I'd gotten the car in for one more tune-up," or "I should have been a better grocery shopper." They hold me in their laps and they say things like "I wish I'd spent more time with my kids."

Think about it: Enjoy the moment. You have a whole new year to practice.

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Dear Santa


Dear Santa,

I have been a very good dog this year. When asked to sit, I sit. When asked to stay, I stay. I would roll over, but it gets my pretty white fur dirty.

I have worked very hard to help people this year. Since January, I have visited over 100 patients at our Hospice House, plus their family members. I help the nurses and CNA’s take care of our patients. They take all kinds of medicines, but sometimes the best one is a wagging tail and a wet nose.

I would like a new sweater, an electric blanket for my dog bed, and a bag of Snausages.

I will leave you an extra dog biscuit next to the tree. Peanut butter—my favorite!

Sincerely,
Bea the Poodle

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Things I Am Thankful For

-My family

-A full belly

-Belly rubs

-14 comfy beds to snuggle on at the Hospice House

-Snausages

-New shirts and bandanas

-Tour groups of playful kids

-Naps after the tour groups leave

-Naps in the sun

-Naps on the couch

-Naps (other)

-Car rides

-Turkey

-Spending time with all my patients and their families

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

My own mailbox

My coworkers have their own mailboxes, but mine is the BEST!


Look for my mailbox outside the admin building on Enon Road!

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

A special mention

I don't know whether to wag or droop. I was mentioned in the paper yesterday. Now, ordinarily, I love being in the press (witness this blog).

This time, though, it was in an obituary for one of my patients, Miss Belle:

Belle was a wonderful cook known for her chicken and dumplings and her delicious Christmas dinners. She loved all animals, particularly dogs, and always had a faithful canine or feline companion...

The family would like to thank the staff of both Morganton Long Term Care and Burke Hospice and Palliative Care Center for their care, and Bea, the Hospice dog, who gave comfort and companionship during Belle's last days.

You can read all of Miss Belle's obituary on Morganton.com.

I was proud to be there for Miss Belle. Caring for people, comforting their pups and grandpups, lending a warm furry coat and a cold nose whenever it's needed, being there right til the end... Snuggling through the sorrows, wagging through the joys: that's what it means to be the Hospice Dog.

But I might need a special belly rub today.

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The staff at Burke Hospice & Palliative Care would like to thank the family of Mary Belle Hudson for kindly mentioning our beloved Bea in Mrs. Hudson's obituary.



Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Dog Days of Summer: A Play in Five Pictures





DOG DAYS OF SUMMER

A Play in Five Pictures


STARRING BEA THE THERAPY DOG

ACT I.


"Outside?! Did somebody say Outside?! Let's go!"


ACT II.


"Whoa. This heat is too much to stand!"


ACT III.


"Fetch? Are you kidding? It's 95 degrees out here!"


ACT IV.


"I guess I  can bear the heat for a quick belly rub..."


ACT V.


"Let's not go outside again til winter, OK?"

THE END

Monday, July 12, 2010

Random barks... er, thoughts

Everyone is barking about our newly relaunched website, BurkeHospice.org. The site has been completely redesigned, and it looks wonderful! There is a form for anyone to make a referral, new information about all our programs, a link to donate through PayPal, and pictures of all my coworkers on the staff pages. Be sure to look for my picture on the Caregivers page!

We hope you like the new website. We will have all the current happenings on the Coming Events page. Be sure to bookmark that for later!

Speaking of upcoming events, one of my coworkers asked me to mention the special fundraiser we are having to benefit our Patient Fund! This Friday at the City of Morganton Municipal Auditorium, Kirksey Funeral Home will present gospel/inspirational singer Michael Combs. Mr. Combs has toured the country and recorded dozens of albums. I just love music you can wag your tail to! The show is this Friday (July 16) at 7: 00 PM. Tickets are $15 in advance or $20 the day of the show and are available at www.commaonline.org or 828/433-SHOW. Proceeds will help us care for our patients in need!

One thing that's usually on my mind is FOOD! I recently read a great list of good treats for good dogs (like me, hint hint). While you're cooking out this summer, my fellow canines may beg for burgers, hot dogs, cupcakes, etc. You should keep your dog to a mostly dog-food diet, but some people foods can be treats if given in moderation. Cooked meats (without bones), fruits and veggies, rice and pasta, and dairy products are all good treats. One of my doggie friends just loves watermelon!

On the flip side, don't feed your dog sweets (especially chocolate -- it's poisonous for dogs!), uncooked meat, chicken or turkey bones, or these few fruits and veggies: grapes, raisins, onions, and garlic. All those foods are hazardous for pooches! For a complete list, visit www.DogAge.com.

I think I got all of my random barks... er, thoughts out for now! Talk atcha again later!

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Full and Empty

The word for the day is FULL. The new Hospice House is FULL of patients, with no empty rooms and sometimes even a waiting list. My day is FULL trying to see all those people. The Living Room, Library, Screen Porch, and Sunroom are FULL of family members all day long. The parking lot is FULL so I have to be careful when I go outside with my coworkers. I wish my food bowl would be FULL more often, but my mom says I will get fat if I eat too much. I argue that with my schedule so FULL of activity, I don't think I will ever be FULL figured! But nothing extra appears in my bowl.

One thing that is EMPTY right now is the old Hospice House. Some of my coworkers went over and cleaned out the old rooms to make way for new offices. The administration building (where my mom is) has gotten very crowded. Some of the existing offices have three people crammed in, like a kennel! Everyone will be happy to spread out a bit and not be on top of each other's tails. There's a lot of excitement around the water dish about the move.

Speaking of water dishes, make sure your doggy friends stay hydrated during this heat wave. If your dog spends most of her time outside, make sure she has a cool, shady place to lay and plenty of water! Give your dog lots of water during the day, and keep the water dishes somewhere they can't be turned over. I'm so glad I get to stay inside most of the day in the air conditioning! All this heat and humidity make my fur frizz.

Bark at you again soon! Stay cool!

Monday, May 17, 2010

Photos from one of my families - my new dress!

One of the members of my favorite families took some pictures of me while I was visiting his mother. Don't you just love my new dress?

I like to say that all of my patients are my favorite patients! These pictures are from one of my favorites, a sweet lady lets me lie at the foot of her bed. She says I remind her of all the pets she's had in her life. That's a tall order for a little poodle like me, but I do my best!

Sometimes we sit in her rocking chair and she will tell me about her dogs. She misses them a lot. I bet she was a wonderful dog-mama in her day -- she's good to me! It's fun to doze in the rocker while she pets me.






I hope it's still ladylike to get a belly rub while in a dress...?











I went to the salon shortly after these pictures were taken and got a haircut. You should see the poof on my tail! It's fabulous! I'll have to get my secretary to post some pictures of my new 'do soon.

More patients to see! Bark atcha again soon!

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

More to explore at the Hospice House

In my last post I barked about exploring the new Hospice House. I had rounds to make on my patients, so I didn't get to explore it all at once. Since then, I've visited every room, and I like what I sniff!

The biggest room in the House is the Living Room. There are big, comfy couches where I can curl up in someone's lap, along with a gas log fireplace that will be wonderful in the winter.

A piano sits on one wall, and a cafe table is against the other. It might be a nice place to have a cup of coffee, but it's too tall for me to sneak crumbs from! I really must speak to the management about that.

Speaking of crumbs, there is a beautiful dining room next to the living room. It seats six people for big dinners or light lunches. My friends in wheelchairs and walkers can get there easily, and there's plenty of room for me under the table where the good stuff drops. Hooray!

Also off of the living room are the Sunroom and Screened Porch. The Sunroom is full of big windows that let in the light. You can rest on the sofa or read a magazine. The view is pretty nice, too—it's just right for dozing and watching butterflies, birds, and the occasional squirrel. Both rooms have nice sitting areas and those tall cafe tables for snacking or relaxing.


The Screened Porch is more shady than the Sunroom. A nice breeze comes through the windows and makes little wind chimes ring. You can hear the birds chirping and playing on the lawn, too, and you can see more squirrels! I think it's one of the nicest places in the House.

(The weather has been just right for enjoying the Sunroom and Screened Porch, but the heavy pollen this spring has made the Screened Porch less popular. Our patients and staff with allergies have been very unhappy lately. Even I don't like it—if I stay out too long, I'm afraid my fur will turn yellow! But once the pollen improves, I'm sure we'll all be out there more often.)

I hear there are plans for the outside areas, too. A short sidewalk already leads away from the Screened Porch, but I overheard my coworkers talking about expanding it into a wheelchair walk for the patients and a nice gazebo for sitting outside. I approve of the gazebo plans, because that could mean more games of fetch for me! I'm sure there will be more work on that throughout the summer.

If you're not feeling sunny, you might take a seat in the Library. The Library is full of books and kids' activities. A desk area is provided, along with a small TV. There's a special table and chairs for the little ones, perfect for coloring or putting together a puzzle. Mom or Dad can stay nearby in the big recliner. It's a good place to get your mind off of things.






For more privacy, try the Meditation Room. If you want peace and quiet, there's no better place. When a local pastor comes, or a family needs to talk, the Meditation Room is the place to go. Sometimes I can hear soft music coming from under the door. It smells pretty good in there, too.









Last but not least is the Spa/Salon. While each patient room has a private bathroom, it can take a lot of effort for a bed-bound person to get into the shower. Sponge baths may be necessary, but they aren't much fun. Instead, the person can roll into the Spa and have a real bath in our padded, adjustable "tub." Imagine having a shallow bathtub on a gurney. It raises up and down like a hospital bed, allowing the person to simply slide into it or be gently lifted. We make the person comfortable and add warm water— bubbles are optional!

For the "Salon" part of the Spa/Salon, we have a real salon station! Our patients can have a shampoo, shave, or makeup application, just like at a barber or beauty shop. Our nurse aides do a great job every day with personal care, and volunteer hairdressers, makeup artists and manicurists are welcomed!

I hope you enjoyed seeing more of our Hospice House. Bark atcha later!

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Dog's-eye view of the new House

Monday afternoon I was working, minding my own business, when my coworkers began bundling up one of my patients. I thought maybe they were going to move him to another room or something, so I went to visit another patient. But that person was packing up, too! I tried to tell them to stop acting so strangely, but they ignored me. I was quite annoyed and went to have a nice lie-down in my fluffy bed.

One at a time, each patient was wheeled out the front door and past the admin building. This really got me going -- I mean, if they're going on walks, why don't I get to go, too?! I love walks! I don't scrub in the grass or track muddy paw prints into the house, like some dogs. I'm pretty sure that's against our Housekeeping policies, anyway.

My coworkers came back, but the patients didn't. I scuttled around, hoping to find out more, but no one had a moment to explain what was going on. Finally, I overheard two nurses talking about the "new House." What! That big new building next to the admin office -- that's a new Hospice House? I didn't think there was anything wrong with this one! The patients all liked it, and I have my own bed and doggy door and fenced yard and... Then they started turning lights out on me! I knew then that this was a big deal.

At last, they walked me over to the new House. I thought about the patch of woods that used to be in its spot; you used to catch a whiff of rabbits from there, or the occasional groundhog. Today, there were all-new smells: new carpet, potpourri, and the patients' dinners cooking in the new kitchen... Yummy!

The front door opened. This place was HUGE! The ceiling seemed very high over my head, and the hallways were enormous. I bet my friends in wheelchairs can go wherever they want in here! A quick sniff let me know there wasn't anybody in the living room or sunroom. I followed my nose down the hall, looking for where my patients had gone. I breathed in my surroundings: big, airy rooms; fresh air-conditioning; good-smelling soap; and someone's peanut butter crackers in their handbag... I tried not to get distracted.

The nurses' station buzzed with cheerful voices. I made a left toward the perfumey scent of one of my favorite patients. What a room! It made her room at the old House look like my dog bed. She was fast asleep under the covers, smiling. She had pushed down the quilt on her bed, one flap falling where I could see the pattern. It was decorated with moose, bears, and other animals. Hey! I thought indignantly, why not a dog?

I wasn't indignant for long, because there was too much to take in. The TV chattered quietly to itself on its wall mount. It was bigger than I am, nose to tail! I noticed the remote next to her hand, so I used one paw to mash the "Mute" button. Then I could hear the ceiling fan whispering overhead, in time with the soft hum of a small fridge. I also noticed a microwave, a big nice chair that looked like it folded out to a bed, and a bay window for sitting in the sun! My favorite!

I could smell water and tile from one door. It sounded echoey, so I figure it was a private bathroom. It had a pull-door so I couldn't get inside to see. I'll have to inspect that later to make sure it's up to par! A piney scent at the other door told me it was a big closet. As much as I loved the old House, I had to admit, I was pretty impressed with this place. It was big and beautiful, and it seemed like, well, home.

I nudged the door closed and trotted back toward the nurses' station. In my hurry, I had missed a small dining area with coffee and snacks. It was a bright, sunny area with flowers and... Oh my!




It was the fancy picture from when I was nominated in 2009 for the American Kennel Club's Award for Canine Excellence. I blushed under my fur! That cinched it. Home is where your portrait hangs!

I explored other parts of the house afterward... More on that next time! See you again soon!

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Working Girl

Hi there! I’m Bea, a pet therapy dog at Burke Hospice & Palliative Care in Valdese, North Carolina. I've decided to write this blog to spread the word about my work helping hospice patients and their families. A girl can only bark over the fence for so long!

I’ve been working at Burke Hospice for 28 years (4 human years). They take good care of us employees. I get the usual benefits package, like regular baths and the occasional bite of someone's breakfast biscuit. I have full run of the building, so I can occasionally stop by Medical Records and see my "mom," Aleta. I don't usually stay anywhere for very long, though; I have too many people to see.

I visit every day with the patients in the Hospice House. I make rounds, just like the doctor. Some people are excited for me to come in; others might not feel like a visit. If a person needs space, it doesn't stop my tail from wagging—I just head to the next room.

Our Hospice House residents want to do different things. One lady just wanted to pet me. Another man wanted me to sit on his bed. I had lap time and he had nap time! I get naps, too—one of my favorite ladies used to sit in the rocking chair in her room, and I would hop up in the bay window next to her. We would nap in the sun, one of my favorite things to do! As you can see, I am a very busy girl.

Make sure to mention my blog to your friends via Facebook and Twitter, up there on the right. You can also email my posts to pals by clicking the little envelope at the end of each post.

I look forward to seeing you here again!